After 63 years with the same Charleston law firm, paralegal Nell Romanosky is a living bit of history.
But don’t mess with her Selectric.
By Amy Burroughs

Photo by Anne McQuary
Nell Romanosky doesn’t have an email account, and she still types on her trusty IBM Selectric. At 83, she remembers being shocked when women exchanged their skirts to wear pantsuits to the office. And she favors Bing Crosby over “modern-day music.”
“Hip-hop and that kind of stuff – I don’t care for that at all,” she said.
Romanosky’s tastes may linger in the past, but she has a unique treasure that escapes members of the younger set – first-hand knowledge of an important historical era in Charleston’s legal community.
Romanosky, a paralegal, joined Legare, Hare & Smith – then Legare & Hare – in 1948, when many of the city’s prominent attorneys conducted business from second-floor offices along Broad Street. It was March 15, 1948, to be exact, when Romanosky, a recent graduate of Charleston’s Rice Business College, walked into the firm for the first time. Like most folks who find themselves with surprisingly long tenures, she never expected to be there 63 years later.
“The years just went by,” she said. “Before I knew it, 20 years had passed. Then the next thing I know, 30 years had passed and I was still here.”
The firm, founded in 1946, moved to St. Andrews Boulevard three years ago. That was just one more milestone Romanosky shared with the firm’s partners – James Cuthbert Hare and Thomas Allen Legare, Jr., both of whom died last year, and Gaines Smith, who joined the firm in 1950. Over the years, the three attorneys and their longest-serving paralegal watched each other’s children grow up and celebrated the arrival of grandchildren.
“It’s just a close-knit family,” Romanosky said.
Smith agreed. “As far as Nell is concerned, you couldn’t have found a better secretary.” Between the two of them, he said, “We could probably tell you the names of all the lawyers practicing in Charleston over the last 20 years.”
Learning the Ropes
Broad Street was in its heyday when Romanosky came to Charleston to attend Rice Business College, soon after graduating high school in Shelby, N.C. The Historic Charleston Foundation, recognizing the area’s long-time status as a legal and commercial hub, considers the area historically significant. The “four corners of law” at Broad and Meeting streets – City Hall, state and federal courthouses, and a church – also raised the area’s stature.
Romanosky stayed single a little longer than her girlfriends back home, most of whom got married and started families after high school. It wasn’t until Romanosky was almost 25, she said, that she married her husband John, who spent his career with the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers.
In those days, local offices would call Rice’s owner to see if he had any “girls” ready for the workforce. That’s how Romanosky got her first job in a law firm, working as a secretary for Buist and Buist. About a year later, with the spring of 1948 approaching, she interviewed with Mr. Hare, who offered her a job.
Given women’s limited professional options at the time – teacher, nurse or secretary were the most common paths to a career – Romanosky said she wasn’t sure where her training would take her. But the law turned out to be a good fit.
“You learn something every single day you’re working in a law office, about all kinds of things,” said Romanosky, who now handles mostly family and estate cases. “It was all very interesting to me.”
But on her first day, she recalls, she was a bundle of nerves. “I had never even been in a law firm. I had no idea what it would be like. I was very apprehensive.”

The firm's partners and colleagues have become like family over the years, Romanosky said. Photo by Anne McQuary
According to Romanosky, Legare & Hare employed one of the first female secretaries to work on Broad Street – Josie Stewart – and she showed Romanosky the ropes.
“I did everything, including all the book work and the bills and ordering supplies and all of that, plus all the legal work,” she said. “Then after a few years, I hired a second girl, but I’ve been basically the behind-the-scenes person in the office all these many years.”
As a North Carolinian, Romanosky’s accent made her stand out when she first came to town.
“I had a different brogue, I guess you’d call it, than the rest of these people. All the other people who lived in Charleston had a different accent. Of course, I’ve acquired it over the years since I’ve been here,” she said. “Everybody used to laugh at my accent.”
Her employers held prominent positions outside the office, so Romanosky’s role extended beyond that of a typical paralegal. Smith said he served 20 years as a U.S. Commissioner – a position replaced by the Federal Magistrates Act of 1968 – and Legare represented Charleston County in the South Carolina Senate for 16 years. Hare had spent about five years as a prosecutor, Smith said.
As a result of those connections, Romanosky said, “I got involved in a lot of political stuff going on in the office.”
The exposure spurred her interest, and she soon enrolled in a program that offered law courses to paralegals and allowed them to take the bar exam after working under an attorney’s supervision. Romanosky’s studies were going well, but the responsibilities of motherhood – she has three children – soon took priority.
“I never finished that course, which I regret to this day,” she said. “I was doing very well with the course, but when you got married and had other responsibilities, I didn’t have the time to study and take the exams.”
There’s a touch of wistfulness in her voice when she considers that she could have become a lawyer, but Romanosky said she knows her role in the firm has been an important one. “They counted on me to be their right-hand man, I guess, all these many years.”
Like most long-time paralegals, she said she learned enough to prepare legal documents on her own, with attorneys simply providing the final review.
All in all, she said, “I’ve enjoyed every bit of the time I’ve worked in this office.”
The Bustle of Broad Street
Broad Street had its traditions, and Romanosky remembers them well. Each morning around 10 a.m., many of the attorneys would gather at Robertson’s Cafeteria. Over coffee and breakfast, they’d congregate in small groups to discuss cases and legal gossip.
According to Smith, it was a familiar group: “Back in the 1940s, every lawyer knew every other lawyer by his first name and they were in contact with those lawyers almost on a daily basis.”
In those days, Romanosky said, you’d never see an attorney strolling down the sidewalk without his hat and suit jacket. Even in the office, men stayed formally dressed. As modern ways crept in, that gradually changed.
“Now when they’re in their offices or on the street, you’ll see them in shirt-sleeves or whatever, very casual,” she said. “That’s very different from when I first started.”
Women underwent an even more dramatic shift.
“When I first started working, you wore dresses and dress shoes and what-not, and when you went to church, you wore a hat and you wore gloves,” Romanosky said. “It was kind of shocking to me when secretaries started wearing pants to work. You wore slacks when you were out doing things on your days off or whatever, but you didn’t dress like that to be at work.”
Romanosky took her time joining the trend, but eventually she, too, swapped her skirt for a pair of pants.
Broad Street itself has changed over time. When Romanosky arrived, the ground floors of the stately buildings held banks, drug stores and real estate offices. Gradually, many of the Broad Street lawyers moved to other parts of Charleston, and the storefronts began to fill with restaurants, boutiques and art galleries.
“It’s nothing like it was when I first was on Broad Street,” she said.
And sometimes, the changes are a matter of perspective, she admits: “I’ve watched a lot of older lawyers – who to me, seemed very old when I first went on Broad Street – they were not as old as I thought they were. I’ve watched their sons and daughters grow up and some of their sons have become lawyers.”
Romanosky, too, has a son who has been practicing law for about 15 years.
Amidst all the changes, Romanosky said she has no intention of trading her electric typewriter for a computer.
“I’m sure I could turn out work a lot faster if I had a computer,” she said, “but I just don’t feel like it at my age.”
She used to joke with her bosses that if her typewriter ever broke down, she’d have to quit her job. But for now, the repair shop is able to keep her machine running. As it turns out, some folks like the sound of an old typewriter. Recently a client visited the office and followed the rhythm of pecking keys upstairs to Romanosky’s desk.
“You know, I’m so glad to hear a typewriter in this office,” he said. “You never hear a sound like that in an office anymore.”
As for the Internet, she doesn’t have much use for that, either, relying on her coworkers when she needs to track down information online.
Romanosky has been working three days a week for the last decade, but said she would miss the office if she stopped working entirely. Her vision is not quite as sharp as it used to be, but she hopes to continue until at least March 15, 2012. That, she pointed out, would mark 64 years at the firm.
Smith is pulling for that, too. “I’m just delighted she stayed with me all these years and I hope she’ll stay with me until I quit,” he said.
These days, Romanosky and her husband make their home on Johns Island, and when they want to listen to music, they still use an old turntable that plays 78s.
The firm now is led by Smith and three lawyers from the next generation, but Romanosky said it’s still the kind of place where you can get acquainted with your colleagues. Today’s large, sprawling firms hold no appeal for Romanosky, who said she would feel like “just a number” in such a place.
“I wouldn’t care a bit for working for a law firm like that,” she said. “I just like the relationships you build in a small firm.”
Amy Burroughs is a freelance writer and editor. You may contact her at amyeburroughs@gmail.com or 704-965-6721.
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